The other day, a friend returned an old USB flash drive to me that had fallen out of my computer bag inside his car. As I looked at it, I realized that I had no idea what was inside. Eventually, my curiosity got a hold on me, and I opened it up. Well, it was mostly a bunch of old work files that I'd archived out of an old computer. But, among the haystack of Word documents and Excel files, I found the following. It seems that back in 2006, I was contemplating writing a book on Christian motivation. Now, after re-reading it, I have found myself re-intrigued with the idea. So, what do you think? Read the intro below and let me know. Should I do it? Should I write this book? Do you want to see it?
Leave me a comment on the blog, or post your thoughts on the Facebook page, but let me know what you think.
The Driving Force
Why do you do what you do? What gets your motor running? What gets the juices flowing? What is your motivation? More specifically, what is your motivation as a follower of Christ? I have seldom noticed this question given much more than cursory coverage, but I think it is an extremely important factor in the longevity of our walk with God.
To begin, let us define our terms. I consulted the online dictionary of Merriam-Webster: To motivate means to provide with a motive or to impel. To impel means to urge or drive forward by the exertion of strong moral pressure. In boiling it down, it creates the question of what is the moral pressure that impels us to live as a Christian.
I intend that final question to cover more ground than just orally claiming to be a Christian. I mean to refer to the life of a Christian to be, as the Apostle John said, walking as Jesus did.
“Whoever claims to live in Him must walk as Jesus did.”
What motivates you and me to live out our lives walking as followers of Christ?
There can be multiple motivations for the things that we do. Some are good, positive, and healthy. Some, on the other hand, are bad, negative, and destructive. Some, in my personal experience, can have the appearance of being good, but in the end are quietly destructive and sometimes spiritually debilitating. We will explore together several motivators, and what I have come to call “de-motivators,” and examine them in light of how biblically sound they are, as well as their practicality. Some of the motivators/demotivators that we will look at include: faith, hope, love, accountability, guilt, and grace.
As a means of introduction, I want to share two personal stories that I believe illustrate the opposite extremes of good motivation and bad demotivation. Both of these stories involve my father, and have had a lasting impact on me.
My father was a Midwest boy, born in 1912 and raised near
. He traveled the west in his twenties, and
fought in WWII in his thirties. After
the war, he settled down in Lima, Ohio ; got a job at the local
Chevrolet plant; and married my mother.
A few years later, I came along.
By then my dad was 50 years old.
He was a blue collar, no nonsense factory worker that had a son when
many men his age were having grandchildren. Muncie,
One night, when I was somewhere around the age of two or three, I remember lying on my dad’s chest as he was putting me to sleep. I remember that I loved to do that. There was something safe about lying on his chest. I was secure, and loved. All was right with the world in that moment in my life.
As I laid there, he told me something that I have never forgotten. It stuck with me all through my childhood, adolescence, and adulthood. It has never left me even as I struggled to build a career, raise my own children, and work through my church relationships. He said, “Mike, the most important thing you can ever do in your life is to love God.”
That’s it. It was that simple. It was not a long, drawn out sermon on the doctrine of salvation. It was not a directive to obey the church leaders. No exhortation to avoid sin. It was just “love God.” That simple message whispered into a toddler’s ear has kept me going when I wanted to quit. It has prevented me from giving my life over to the temptations that are everywhere around us. It has impelled me to get up and get going when I wanted to stop and throw in the towel. Somehow it stuck in my heart, and I have made it the driving force in my life, and I hope to make it the driving force in the lives of my children.
The second story involves my father’s childhood. When he was a boy of about twelve, he had begun to attend a local church. It was a rural, farm community, and he was not in a position to have much that wasn’t considered a necessity. He was one of nine children, whose father had recently disappeared. He had a couple brothers and a sister that were older than him, and several siblings that were younger. They were scraping by, but extras were rare. However, he must have had a least one set of “Sunday” clothes, and he was enjoying church.
One Sunday, a neighbor boy who was worse off than he was, and a few years younger went to church with him. However, this boy did not have anything to wear but his usual farm clothes. After church, the minister and an elder of the church pulled my dad aside and told him, “Don’t bring that boy back until he has decent clothes to wear to church.”
My father, the same man who told me the most important thing I could ever do was to love God, never went back. And, I don’t mean that he never went back to that particular church. I mean that he never went back to any church, anywhere. Even as I grew up and began to attend church, he would not go. After I went to
and spent some time as a ministry intern, he would not go. Even up to the time he lived with me prior to
his death, he still could not bring himself to go to church. Bible College
My father had been demotivated. He still loved God, but the pain of someone’s ridiculous, unbiblical standard used as a legalistic tool to bring about an appearance that was “acceptable” destroyed his desire to worship with others. Again, it wasn’t a long dissertation. It wasn’t a fiery sermon on sin. It was just a few simple words. They probably were not even meant to be hurtful. However, they had a lasting, negative motivational effect on an impressionable young mind.
I hope you will join me in the following chapters as we explore the various ways and means of Christian motivation. Hopefully, together, we can come to understand the concepts that will truly motivate us for the long-term to be people that are “after God’s own heart.” Together, we can find the “driving force” that will move us along in an enduring relationship with the Father of us all.